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A team lead's pains — and how to rehearse them

No company news. Just the concrete management situations that get in the way of leading a team — with a case at the end of every article to rehearse the decision risk-free.

First week

You've been made a team lead: what to do in your first week

You've just been made a team lead and don't know where to start. Your first week as a lead: first 1-on-1s, team norms, trust, and the rookie mistakes to avoid.

Conflict

Conflict with the product manager: who makes the call

The PM pushes the deadline, you push for quality. How a team lead handles a conflict with the product manager, splits ownership and makes the call without a fight.

Team

Your key developer is quitting: what a team lead should do

Your strongest engineer hands in their notice. How a team lead runs the retention talk, assesses the bus factor and cuts the risk — without a blind counter-offer.

Letting go

How to let someone go with dignity

The decision to let someone go is made. How a team lead runs the termination conversation honestly and respectfully — no surprises, no blame, no burnout on either side.

Feedback

How to give hard feedback without turning it into a fight

Why the honest conversation with an engineer stalls, and how a team lead can say the difficult thing so the person hears it instead of shutting down.

Delegation

You delegate, yet everything still lands on you

Why a team lead stays the main contributor even after delegating, and how to hand off work without losing quality or burning out.